1 Timothy 5:1-4

11Do not sharply rebuke an 2older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, and to 3the younger men as brothers, 2to the older women as mothers, and to the younger women as sisters, in all purity.

3Honor widows who are actually 4widows; 4but if any widow has children or grandchildren, 5they must first learn to show proper respect for their own family and to give back compensation to their parents; for this is 6acceptable in the sight of God.