1 Timothy 5:1-4

1Rebuke not an elder sharply, but exhort [him] as a father, younger [men] as brethren,

2elder women as mothers, younger women as sisters, with all purity.

3Honour widows who are really widows;

4but if any widow have children or descendants, let them learn first to be pious as regards their own house, and to render a return on their side to [their] parents; for this is acceptable in the sight of 1God.