2 Samuel 19:5-6

5Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “Today you have shamed 1all your servants, who have saved your life today and the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines,

6by loving those who hate you, and by hating those who love you. For you have revealed today that 2commanders and servants are nothing to you; for I know today that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then it would be right 3as far as you are concerned.