1 Corinthians 7:7-40

71Yet I wish that all men were 2even as I myself am. However, 3each man has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.

8But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is 4good for them if they remain 5even as I. 9But if they do not have self-control, 6let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10But to the married I give instructions, 7not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not 8leave her husband 11(but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not 9divorce his wife.

12But to the rest 10I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not 11divorce her. 13And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not 12send her husband away. 14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through 13her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are 14holy. 15Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called 15us 1617to peace. 16For how do you know, O wife, whether you will 18save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?

17Only, 19as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And 20so I direct in 21all the churches. 18Was any man called when he was already circumcised? He is not to become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? 22He is not to be circumcised. 1923Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is 24the keeping of the commandments of God. 2025Each man must remain in that 26condition in which he was called.

21Were you called while a slave? 27Do not worry about it; but if you are able also to become free, rather 28do that. 22For he who was called in the Lord while a slave, is 29the Lord’s freedman; likewise he who was called while free, is 30Christ’s slave. 2331You were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men. 24Brethren, 32each one is to remain with God in that condition in which he was called.

25Now concerning virgins I have 33no command of the Lord, but I give an opinion as one who 3435by the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy. 26I think then that this is good in view of the 36present 37distress, that 38it is good for a man 39to remain as he is. 27Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28But if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have 40trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you. 29But this I say, brethren, 41the time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none; 30and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; 31and those who use the world, as though they did not 42make full use of it; for 43the form of this world is passing away.

32But I want you to be free from concern. One who is 44unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but 45to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

36But if any man thinks that he is acting unbecomingly toward his virgin daughter, if she is past her youth, and if it must be so, let him do what he wishes, he does not sin; let 46her marry. 37But he who stands firm in his heart, 47being under no constraint, but has authority 48over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin daughter, he will do well. 38So then both he who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better.

3949A wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband 50is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only 51in the Lord. 40But 52in my opinion she is happier if she remains as she is; and I think that I also have the Spirit of God.