Proverbs 18:12-19

12Before his downfall a person’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor.

13The one who gives an answer before he listens — this is foolishness and disgrace for him.

14A person’s spirit can endure sickness, but who can survive a broken spirit?

15The mind of the discerning acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks it.

16A person’s gift opens doors for him and brings him before the great.

17The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.

18Casting the lot ends quarrels and separates powerful opponents.

19An offended brother is harder to reach than a fortified city, and quarrels are like the bars of a fortress.