2 Corinthians 2:1-3

1So I decided that I would not bring you grief with another painful visit.

2For if I cause you grief, who will make me glad? Certainly not someone I have grieved.

3That is why I wrote to you as I did, so that when I do come, I won’t be grieved by the very ones who ought to give me the greatest joy. Surely you all know that my joy comes from your being joyful.