1 Timothy 3:8-12

8In the same way, deacons must live good lives, so that people respect them. They must not be hypocrites. They must not drink too much wine. They must not want to get a lot of money for themselves.

9They must completely believe the true message that God has shown us about Christ. They must be sure in their minds about it.

10Before anyone becomes a deacon, you must first test their character. If they are good enough, then let them serve God as deacons.

11Deacons' wives must live good lives, so that people respect them. They must not say bad things against people. They must think carefully about how they live. People should know that they are honest in everything they do.

12A deacon must be the husband of one wife. He must take care of his children and everyone who lives in his house.