2 Samuel 19:1-7

1(19:2) Joab was told, “The king is weeping and mourning over Absalom.”

2So the victory of that day was turned to mourning as far as all the people were concerned. For the people heard on that day, “The king is grieved over his son.”

3That day the people stole away to go to the city the way people who are embarrassed steal away in fleeing from battle.

4The king covered his face and cried out loudly, “My son, Absalom! Absalom, my son, my son!”

5So Joab visited the king at his home. He said, “Today you have embarrassed all your servants who have saved your life this day, as well as the lives of your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your concubines.

6You seem to love your enemies and hate your friends! For you have as much as declared today that leaders and servants don’t matter to you. I realize now that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, it would be all right with you.

7So get up now and go out and give some encouragement to your servants. For I swear by the Lord that if you don’t go out there, not a single man will stay here with you tonight! This disaster will be worse for you than any disaster that has overtaken you from your youth right to the present time!”