Luke 14:26-28

26If any man come to me, and shall not hate his own father and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, yea, and his own life too, he cannot be my disciple;

27and whoever does not carry his cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.

28For which of you, desirous of building a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, if he have what [is needed] to complete it;